Last night at Farmer's again picking oranges. Suddenly her husband said, "If you want it, just buy it." The wife instead turned the oranges back and said, "No need, there are still lots to buy," and then walked to another shelf. But a few moments later, her husband returned to the orange rack. It seems simple, but for me it's a sweet form of attention. There are still marriages filled with attention and affection as simple as that.